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Friday, 2 January 2015

Before the Breath - the Memoirs of a Newborn

Before the first breath –
the Memoirs of a newborn


From the very first moment that I held my newborn daughter - I was convinced that she had something to say.
I was excited!
Wow! This was a first!
A newborn who wanted to talk - she must be brilliant - I thought.
And, why not?

She was my daughter after all.
OK - I am not brilliant. But I do talk a lot.

With pride in my voice I conveyed the news to my husband.

He was pensively calculating how he was going to get his sleep that night between changing diapers and following my nonstop instructions - and as I made this announcement - the look of intense concentration on his face morphed into one of dread.

The look he gave me said it all. It said - “Oh dear! Now a mad wife - to add to the chaos.”

“Go to sleep. You must be really tired - go to sleep” was all he finally managed to say.

The implied message however was loud and clear.

I looked at my baby - I was certain she looked indignant too.

“Yes Mamma” she seemed to be saying “of course I have something to say”

Not one to give up easily on conversations -especially when they smelt promising - I mulled over what this hour old creature could possibly have - to say.

“Hmmmmmmmmmm…………. there was no way I was giving up on this one”

Through sleepless days and nights of exhaustedly and yet proudly feeding and changing my new possession - I mulled and mulled over this mystery.

And one fine day when I was sufficiently sleep deprived - it hit me.

This baby that I thought was just a few days old - was in fact just as old as me.

She was that one cell who had made it from the ovary to my arms when so many others hadn’t and as a cell she had been born as soon as I was born.

What adventures she must have had! No wonder she looked like she had so much to share!
It must have been so tough for her - a little cell in an obscure corner of my body - with such a big dream!

I was certain hers was a story worth chronicling and I determined that I would do it.

But how would I know what she had to say?

Hmmmmmm……… it would have to be my Embryology and Obstetrics textbooks to the rescue.
It was such an important story - I could not possibly be technically inaccurate.

Between being Mom, doctor, wife and myself (where my procrastinating self has certainly been at the forefront) - this book has taken me a while to write - but at last it is done.

It tells the story of a cell in the left ovary who suffers with fortitude through her boring uneventful childhood - survives the trials and tribulations of her Moms teen years - and hopes and prays to meet her Prince charming - and one day finally does.

Marital bliss with her Prince charming morphs into an exercise in cell resource management and meeting of deadlines - as she hurtles towards her dream of being born a little baby and making it to her Mom’s arms.

After several - “Will I make its?” and “How will I make that happen?” she finally realizes her dream.

Read about it in my book


Find out all that happens before you finally get to hold your little one.


6 comments:

  1. Bit confused here. Name of the author is Debmita Dutta and your name is Varsha. Have you changed your name to write this book or is Varsha your pen name?

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  2. Hi 'varsha'
    I read all your blog entries in the last couple of days. What fun I was having! I liked your jhatpat recipes and the chronicles.
    And suddenly there are none left. It's been more than an year too, so perhaps you should write soon.

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  3. Hi Archaj !
    This is one of the best comments anyone has ever made on my blog. You have really made my day. Yes...I have so many more stories to tell. .I wish I could sit down and write them down. I have been busy with my website blog at www.theparentingplace.in do take a look at that too :) . I will write more stories here too soon....now that I have your encouragement. Thanks a lot for your wonderful message :)

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  4. Hi Archaj !
    This is one of the best comments anyone has ever made on my blog. You have really made my day. Yes...I have so many more stories to tell. .I wish I could sit down and write them down. I have been busy with my website blog at www.theparentingplace.in do take a look at that too :) . I will write more stories here too soon....now that I have your encouragement. Thanks a lot for your wonderful message :)

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  6. Awesome work.Just wanted to drop a comment and say I am new to your blog and really like what I am reading.Thanks for the share

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